Introduction

“Studying abroad is about experiencing a foreign country and the most beautiful, important part of its country’s culture.”-Alexander Kolker

As I embarked on my journey as an international student, Kolker’s words deeply resonated with me. The promise of education, the allure of new experiences, navigating cultural nuances to forging new friendships, and discovering facets of myself I never knew existed. It is a testament to resilience, curiosity, and the quest for knowledge that defines the journey of every international student pursuing their dreams far from home. My name is Chidiogor, but I am popularly referred to as Chidi. I write this blog in dedication to students who have studied abroad or have plans of being an international student. 

Visa Chronicles: The Denied vs. Accepted Showdown

I once thought securing a visa to study in the U.S. was simple — just a checklist of documents, an interview of about 5 minutes, and voila, you are good to go. I was even more confident because I had already earned a scholarship to Clarkson University. However, the real challenge began when trying to book a visa interview. It felt like a lottery, with slots filling up faster than I could refresh the page. After months of trying, I finally secured a date, and the excitement was overwhelming.

I prepared meticulously, rehearsing answers and ensuring all my documents were in order. On the day of my interview, standing in line at the embassy, my heart was probably racing faster than Usain Bolt. I was optimistic, given my scholarship. But after just a few minutes, my visa was denied. I was devastated—six months of hard work, gone in five minutes.

With the support of my family, I found the strength to try again. On my second attempt, though nervous, I had a new approach and was better prepared. Despite unexpected questions, I remained confident. This time, my visa was approved. In that moment, I learned an invaluable lesson: setbacks are just setups for comebacks.

Transitioning Through Cultural Shocks

Socially

Living in America has given me a unique perspective of social interaction norms, especially when I compare it to my experiences back home in Nigeria. Our culture thrives on collectivism and a strong sense of mutual support. It is not uncommon for a stranger to walk up to you simply because you seem distressed, to check on you, and offer help without you even asking. In the USA, individualism is the norm. People value their personal space and independence. I also noticed if you need help, you often must ask for it first, but once you do, people are willing to give you the best help they can. This contrast has been eye-opening. While I hold dear the communal spirit and warmth back home, I have learned to appreciate the independence that comes with individualism. This blend of experience has given me a deeper understanding of the diverse ways people connect. 

Extracurricular Activities

Engaging in extracurricular activities was a game-changer in my college journey. Initially, I thought focusing solely on academics was the key to success, but I was wrong! Joining clubs and participating in campus activities not only enriches college experience but also plays a crucial role in personal development. One of my proudest moments came when I decided to participate in Clarkson’s Got Talent. I still remember the adrenaline rush while performing a spoken word on stage, the awe-struck expressions of the audience as they watched me, and the thrill when I was announced as part of the winners. That moment was about more than just winning a talent show; it was about discovering new facets of myself, building confidence, and understanding the value of balancing academics with other passions. That experience taught me that college is not just about hitting the books; it’s also about embracing opportunities that allow you to grow in different dimensions. Participating in extracurriculars gives you the chance to develop leadership skills, make new friends, and discover talents you do not know you have. It is a turning point in life, where you learn that true success lies in a well-rounded experience.

Academically

When I came to Clarkson, I refocused my studies from arts to sciences. This transition was not merely a change of majors but a fundamental reorientation of my academic path. Navigating this transformation involves mastering a new subject area and adapting to the rigorous demands of scientific inquiry. One of my favorite things about transitioning to the education system in the US and here at Clarkson, is how practical classes are. Back home, we spent a lot of time memorizing facts while reading from textbooks. While it gives a solid foundation of knowledge, I believe practical experiences make it easier to visualize and understand certain concepts. For example, during one of my chemistry lectures, as my professor demonstrated an experiment, he added more oxygen to a fire that was beginning to fade which ignited it instantly. This simple yet powerful demonstration left a powerful impression on me, emphasizing the critical role of oxygen in combustion. That demonstration registered in my brain; I have never forgotten that information. 

Faculty

It is one thing to have a job and it is another thing to have genuine passion for your job. One of the most comforting experiences has been the dedication of professors to students’ success beyond lecture halls. It is the commitment they show during office hours that truly stands out.  These sessions were not just about academic support; but about understanding my struggles and offering me guidance beyond the classroom. I remember when I struggled with a chemistry concept and nervously attended my professor’s office hours. He patiently guided me through it. That reassured me that I wasn’t just another face in a lecture hall. My pre-calc lecturer had a unique teaching method. His method clarified complex concepts and ignited my enthusiasm for learning. I found myself looking forward to examinations. Beyond my dedicated professors, Mrs. Rebecca Brown, Assistant Director of International Students, stands out as a beacon of unwavering support. She is not just amazing but incredibly encouraging. Whenever I faced challenges, she was there with words of encouragement, always reminding me, “Chidi, you can do hard things!”. Those words motivated me to push myself and strive to be outstanding. Her dedication to students like me is a testament to the nurturing environment Clarkson provides. 

Personal Experience

My journey as an international student from Nigeria to the U.S. has been a profound experience of personal growth. The sting of my first visa denial taught me resilience and the power of persistence. Adjusting to a culture that values independence over community was challenging, but it pushed me to find strength within myself. Participating in Clarkson’s Got Talent was a turning point. I realized that college is about more than just academics; it’s about embracing all the opportunities. The support from faculty, especially Mrs. Rebecca Brown, reminded me that I wasn’t alone in this journey. I have learnt that setbacks are setups for comebacks and true success lies in a well-rounded balanced experience. Through every challenge and triumph, I’ve grown into a stronger, more self-assured version of myself. I still have a long way to go and I look forward to seeing what the future holds for me. I know I will do great because I can do hard things and the sky is my starting point.

My Tips for Incoming International Students and Students Planning to Study Abroad

Leaving your comfort zone can be very overwhelming because everything seems different from what you are used to. You have already exhibited great courage by making such a decision. I have a few tips for you.

• Make time to relax, reflect and recharge yourself. There are plenty of calm places on campus and in the surrounding environment where you can do this. 
• Stay resilient and maintain a positive mindset
• Failure is not fatal and success is not final. The difference is the courage to continue. It is okay to not do great at first but what is not okay is giving up. 
• Don’t limit yourself to academic pursuits. Join clubs and participate in extracurricular activities.
• Make an effort to build relationships with your professors and faculty members because they can provide guidance and encouragement. 
• Keep trying new foods until you find ones you love. 
• Whatever task you are assigned regardless of how minor it seems, do it well because what is worth doing is worth doing well. 

Every moment, every challenge, every step will contribute to the person you are becoming. I believe you have what it takes to excel wherever you go and this is only going to be true if you also believe it yourself. Remember, YOU CAN DO HARD THINGS!